With busy lives, it's easy to get caught up in our standard sex routines meaning that sometimes we don't put the effort in to make the most of our partners.
Staring into each other's eyes and taking it slow can make all the difference, and actually having that emotional connection with your other half is proven to improve your orgasms.
She says: "I always tell my makeover clients, when giving them relationship tips, that the best sex is like a conversation and allows you to communicate with your bodies.
"I think it is very important to connect with your partner during sex, with as much eye contact as possible. Great sex with connection transcends into a more deeper level of orgasm, when you have that intimate spiritual connection as well as the animal instincts we have during sex."
So we'll run you through the most romantic sex positions out there. It's time to feel all kinds of sensual.
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The Fantastic Rocking Horse
With this in mind any position where you are looking directly at your partner will be extra passionate.
She suggests: "Straddle him in a kneeling position, woman on top, with a slow rhythmic (not fast and furious) riding movement. Your partner is in a sitting position. Alternate with hand positions, and run your hands over his shoulders or head when kissing him.
"Let him feel your breathing on his lips as you moan, reaching climax. You can rub your breasts over his chest as he clasps your hips. It's about both getting your breathing to be in sync too. Keep you bodies close together."
Not only will you get maximum clitoris action and a great angle for your G spot, he will get a total eyeful too.
The Slide
You can move the girl on top down to a slower, saucier pace by making your partner lie down as you lower yourself on top of him.
This is pretty much the missionary position but with you on top which makes it that little bit hotter.
Now you have plenty of time to kiss whilst your bodies move together. Plus he can get his hands on that great arse of yours and help rotate your pelvis for maximum chance of orgasming together.
The Nirvana
It wouldn't be a romantic sex position round-up without mentioning the missionary position would it?
This is the favourite position of many a couple - easy, intimate and sexy.
All you have to do is lie on your back and let him lie on top of you, straddling his legs on either side of your body. From here he can thrust away while you meet his thrusts with your pelvis.
Try asking your partner to run his fingers through your hair as you kiss. You also have the option to play with his bum in this position, as well as gently running your fingers up his back for the sexiest sensations.
The Padlock
Now we're getting into more adventurous territory so make sure you have a sink, chair or kitchen surface ready for this.
Rachel says: "This starts off romantic with an added twist of naughtiness. In this position the man holds the woman as if she's just jumped into his arms. He can be on a chair or edge of the bed.
"With her legs wrapped around his waist and her arms around his neck, this loving position is conducive to slow movements, passionate kisses and romantic swaying.
"He can put his hands on her butt, lift her up as she thrusts her hips up and down. It allows her to be sensual and also naughty, as she can choose to whisper dirty words into his ear, being naughty whilst romantic to help both reach climax."
You can lean back for extra depth too...
The Ascent to Desire
If you fancy stepping it up a notch then why not try the Ascent to Desire. Basically start off like the previous position but have your man pick you up into his arms.
He now has his hands on your bum and you can can lean back as you grind up against him in mid-air while you kiss.
We think the fact your man can carry your weight is a pretty big turn-on in itself.
The Suspender
So if you get a bit tired of the Ascent, make him rest against the wall for support.
You can get extra energy here by bending your legs at a right angle to the wall and using it to bounce you up and down. He can use his hands on your bum to lift you too. Work together to make a rhythmical and romantic sex session.
If you want, you can then change this position and make him rest you against the wall so that he can get extra deep inside you.
The Close Up
Spooning is great but what makes it even better is when you're having sex whilst doing it.
Rachel says this is a great position for creating romance as your bodies are so close and your partner has the opportunity to do a few extras...
"Even though there is no eye contact, your guy can gently kiss your neck and whisper romantic words in your ear, which gives a feeling of him being gently dominant, whilst you can play a submissive role.
"You lie on your side, with him behind, both facing in the same direction. As he enters you from behind, you should push your butt towards him and arch your back as he plays with your breasts.
"You can place your hands on his bum and enjoy the sensation of him thrusting in and out. He can place his hands on your hips or bust."
The Zen Pause
Mix up the spooning position by flipping onto your other side so you are facing your partner.
Hook your leg around his side and bring him towards you. In this positon you have plenty of opportunity for kissing, sometimes just looking at your partner when you're this close to each other is enough.
You're also getting great stimulation to your clitoris while he gets the added bonus of feeling your breasts move up against him - and easy access to your bum - what more could you want?
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The Glowing Juniper
Your partner may need to be a little bit more flexible to make this position really work for you both but with the Glowing Juniper, everyone should be satisfied.
He sits down on the bed as you straddle him, now lie back as he lifts your lower back and pelvis and slips inside you. As you might have guessed this position gives great access to your G-spot whilst giving him the sensation of feeling deep inside you.
Now you can play with your clitoris as he caresses your breasts. Whilst this position is a bit more raunchy than simply spooning or missionary, you can still feel that closeness by the simple fact that you're both facing each other.
We know it sounds silly but that eye contact makes all the difference.
The Kneel
Next up is the Kneel. In this position bend your calves to the floor and slide your legs in between each other's.
Now sit up and wrap your arms around each other as he enters you. This position has the potential to get pretty hot and heavy as you can run your hands virtually all over each other.
Extra excitement for you comes in the fact that you have close contact on your clitoris, so the more animated you both get, the more fun for you. LOTS of kissing advised...
The Rock n Roller
This is a great position to re-connect with your partner beacuse you're in a perfect position to climax and he is in the perfect place to see how much you love it.
Rachel says: "This is always a favourite - he is in control, she is submissive, and both partners can lock lips and eyes with ease. And while he's in the power position on top of you, the two of you can set the pace together.
"You can rest your legs straight over his chest, to allow him to grip your ankles which are resting then on his shoulders."
If you really want to add something extra to this position then we suggest keeping your heels on if you're coming back from a romantic meal out.
The Amazon
Everyone loves a prop when you're having sex and what is hotter than having full-blown no-holds-barred sex on a chair?
We're imagining jumping on top of your other half after a romantic home-cooked meal with extra points for just hitching that skirt up...
First off get yourself a chair and push your man back down onto it, then climb on top of him and let him enter you. Now you can start to grind up on him moving your hips back and forth or in circular motions while kissing his face, his ears, his mouth, anywhere you can reach.
This position is amazing for orgasm as you'll be getting plenty of contact for your clitoris and G spot with him getting amazing sensations from being so deep.
The Super 8
If you want to spice the basic missionary position up a bit more then make your man hitch himself up onto his outstretched arms. You can put a pillow under your head or your lower abdomen to angle your pelvis for deeper penetration too.
Now he still gets a full view of your beautiful body and plenty of room to give deep, sensual thrusts while staring down into your eyes.
The Snail
If you want a position that's romantic but raw and passionate then head straight for The Snail. Trust us there's nothing slow about it, this position is a one-track road to orgasm central.
You get the romance of being able to see how much your partner is enjoying themselves by being face to face but ultimately you are at the complete mercy of your partner with him controlling depth and speed all on his own.
Hitching your legs onto his shoulders only makes for a more intense experience as he gets greater access to your G spot too and you get the freedom to explore his body. Win-win really.
The Proposal
A proposal isn't just a life commitment, it's a sex position too - who knew?
With this position start off on your knees embracing each other. Now both hitch opposite legs up so one of your feet is flat on the ground. Now have your guy enter you, taking it nice and slow to make him last.
The Lotus Blossom
If you want something a little less taxing and a bit more natural then try out the Lotus Flower.
Here your partner sits in the lotus flower position and you sit on top of him with your legs wrapped around his waist.
This means that you get all the extra clitoral stimulation you need and can go at the depth and speed that you want - he's completely powerless, except for that mouth of his...
The Sphinx
You might not automatically go for doggy style if you're trying to keep that fire burning but Rachel says that with a few changes doggy style can be unbelievably passionate.
"Doggy position can be just as romantic as the rest and is not just for fast and furious animalistic sex.
"Try to make it sensually romantic by asking your partner to lean in now and again, between thrusts, closer onto your back, so you can be close together, to enable kissing.
"It's also a great position helping your partner reach climax and I think compliments the woman on top position. By then you have had a lot of intimate eye contact to keep the doggy position romantic," she says.
Making sure you have the close contact with your partner is key to making doggy style extra intimate. This way he is still in total control but can also tenderly kiss and caress your mouth, breasts and back which is a mind-blowing combination.
The Side Kick
In the same way as the Sphinx, the Side Kick is all about contact, making it less porn-tastic doggy style and more of a truly passionate position.
You should lie down on your front with your head to the side and one of your partner's legs in between your own and the other on the outer side of your body. This way your limbs are locked together but his arms are free to do whatever they want.
Whether this is massaging your back or bum or gently grabbing your hair, this should make for some ultra romantic sex.
Tell him to take it slow to start, with long thrusts and you'll soon feel the full force of this position
The Waterfall
Now you're going to need a bit of balance for this position but we promise that extra effort is going to be worth it.
While having sex on a chair is great, lying back off it takes it to a whole new level. So once you're sat straddled on the chair, lean back, still keeping him inside you - you can put your hands down behind you to support your weight.
The angle of your vaginal wall is now perfectly positioned for his penis to massage your G spot while he gets a super-tight treat.
The Right Angle
Want something hot as hell? Then the Right Angle is the way to go, we promise it's sexier than it sounds.
First off you need a hard, stable suface - a kitchen counter will do perfectly. Next lie down on the surface with your bum on the edge. Have your guy stand in between your legs and enter you slowly.
He'll have an amazing view from the get-go as your best bits are on show, while the angle of penetration is great for getting to your G spot whilst making you seem extra tight to him. What you do with your hands is up to you but bums and boobs are both free, just saying.
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